Tuesday, 16 August 2016

Easter V Year C [John 13:31-35, On love] (24-Apr-2016)

This sermon was preached at Calvary Lutheran Church, Glandore, 8.45am, and St Mark's Lutheran Church, Underdale, 10.30.

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Grace, mercy and peace be to you from God our Father, and from our Lord Jesus Christ.

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.

Prayer: Lord God, heavenly Father, send down your Holy Spirit to all of us, to me that I may preach well, and to all of us that we may hear well. Amen.


Today I would like to give a sermon on the topic of love. We have a wonderful passage in our gospel reading on this topic, one of the most famous passages about love, where Jesus commands his disciples to love one another and he gives this command to his disciples as a new commandment. A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another.

Now often we read this passage on Maundy Thursday, which is the day before Jesus died, which we call Good Friday. This final night which Jesus spends with his disciples is quite an amazing night, and so many things happen on it. Do you know that we specifically mention Maundy Thursday in our church service every Sunday, but that we don’t specifically mention Good Friday? Can you think where it is? Every time we have the Lord’s Supper, the pastor recites those wonderful words which Jesus spoke about the Lord’s Supper, and today I as your pastor for this Sunday will recite these same words, which start like this: Our Lord Jesus Christ, on the night he was betrayed, took bread.

Did you hear that? On the night he was betrayed. That’s Maundy Thursday. And that’s the particular day when Jesus spoke the words which we are meditating upon today. So what happened on Maundy Thursday? Well, first of all, it was the day of the Passover. Right back in the Old Testament, we read about where the people of Israel were going to leave Egypt, and they were commanded to kill a lamb and put the blood of the lamb on their doorposts, so that the angel of death would “pass over” their houses and not put to death their firstborn son. With the Egyptians, who didn’t do this practice, their sons were killed—and God shows that he takes particular notice of his own people, and blesses them. And so, centuries later, Jesus celebrates this festival, the Passover. And then, he brings something new to it. He takes bread and wine, and through these things he gives his disciples his body and blood to eat and drink. But not only that, he commands them to do this in remembrance of him. When he has risen again and ascended into heaven, he wants them to go out into the whole world and have this supper again and again, and Jesus wants to continually feed his church with his body and blood.

Also, during the supper, Jesus gets up and he washes the disciples’ feet, and shows them by this example what kind of a king, what kind of a Saviour, what kind of a master he is. He bends down and he wipes every last speck of dirt from his disciples’ feet. After this, we read that Judas goes out, and prepares to betray him. Also, Jesus preaches a wonderful encouraging sermon to his disciples, which we have written down in John chapters 13 through to 16, and he prays a wonderful prayer. We often call this the High Priestly prayer—which is written down in John 17.

Then we read about how Jesus sang a hymn together with his disciples, and he crosses over the Kidron Brook, and he enters into the Garden of Gethsemane. There he gathers his disciples together to be watchful in prayer. But they fall asleep. Then Christ prays, knowing that he will be killed in a brutal way the next day. He prays, and he sweats blood, and even an angel comes to support him in his trials. Then he gets up and Judas comes. Judas betrays him with a kiss and Jesus is bound in chains and arrested.

As you can see, a lot happens on Maundy Thursday and it is a very significant day in the life of the church, so much so that it is impossible to talk about everything on the actual day. So today, we have a little bit-sized chunk, where we read about this wonderful encouragement, where Jesus says to his disciples: A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. Bu this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.

Now, in talking about love, I’d like to go back to a passage in the Gospel of Luke, where we read about an event where Jesus goes to the house of a Pharisee and was having a meal. We read: And behold, a woman of the city, who was a sinner, when she learned that he was reclining at table in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster flask of ointment, and standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears and wiped them with the hair of her head and kissed his feet and anointed them with the ointment.

Can you imagine this event? Here we see Jesus go to the house of an important Jewish leader, and in the middle of everything this happens. What do you think that the people thought about this?

We read: Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner.”

What about you? Who are you like in the passage? Well, let me tell you, first, you are not Jesus. Jesus is Jesus, he is the true son of the living God, true man and true God—and you are not true God, you are not Jesus. So, now you have two options: either you are a sinner like this woman, or you are the Pharisee who tut-tuts at her.

Which one are you? Choose the woman. Remember that you are a sinner, because Jesus didn’t die for perfect people who tut-tut at sinners. If you are such a person, Jesus didn’t die for you. Jesus only died for sinners, so it’s important that you realise that you are one. Jesus has died for sinners, and now he covers sinners with his blood and he forgives them, completely and totally freely, and invites you to come to him and to be with him, and he promises to walk with you and lead you your whole life through right up to the gates of heaven and in through the gate to be with all the saints and angels singing praises to him in heaven. That’s what Jesus has done and still does for sinners.

 Now the Pharisee says: If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner. Now, can you see a little window here into Jesus’ love for this woman. Yes, Jesus is a prophet. He knows everything, and every word he speaks is pure truth, it’s 24 carat gold, and not one thing that he says is a lie. And also, as a prophet he can see right into people’s hearts and minds, and searches them completely through, like a laser beam. He doesn’t need to hear people talk to know what they are thinking—he is true God, and he knows our thoughts, and our minds, and the very depth of our souls. Yes, Jesus is a wonderful prophet.

And he knows exactly who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him. We have also come to church today to place our prayers into his ears, and to let his words come into our ears. And Jesus knows exactly who each and every single one of us is. He knows who and what sort of people we are who are touching him. And like the woman in our reading, we are sinners.

And he loves her. He does not her away. He loves her. And just as he loved her, he also loves us.

The Pharisee wants Jesus to send the woman away. But instead of criticising her, Jesus criticises the Pharisee. He says: Do you see this woman? I entered you house; you have me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not ceased to kiss my feet. You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment.

The Pharisee was polite enough to Jesus. He was happy to chit-chat. But he showed Jesus no love. Now, understand this well: There is a difference between politeness, and pleasantries, and love. It’s easy to be polite, it’s easy not to rock the boat, it’s easy to give Jesus the superficial Pharisaical treatment—but it is a completely different thing to love, and this is something that must be learned from our Lord Jesus, and from our Lord Jesus alone.

St Paul says: Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. People often think today that Christians are hateful, because they believe that certain things are true! But that’s not true. Love comes from truth—and the truth of this situation is that the woman is a sinner, and yet she is truly forgiven. And this is something to rejoice in. This is something that only Jesus teaches.

This woman completely bypasses all the rules of politeness, because she wants to go straight to her Lord, who loves her.

And Jesus says: Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven—for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little, loves little. And he said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.” Then those who were at table with him began to say among themselves, “Who is this, who even forgives sins?” And he said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.”

Can you see here how Jesus shows his love to her? She is a sinner—what’s he going to about it? Is he going to excuse her? No. Is he going to brush it under the carpet, and say it doesn’t really matter? No. Is he going to rub her face in her sin and cause her great public shame? No. None of these things is love.

Jesus loves her with four simple words: Your sins are forgiven. This woman had all kinds of things that she done—it has all been wiped clean, her debt has been completely cancelled. Sometimes, we might look back at our lives and think, I can’t believe that I even did that! I can’t believe that I was so hard-hearted, I can’t believe I was such a fool, that I was so painful to that person, that I was so awful. Can Jesus forgive me for even that, and that, and that? Then Jesus comes to you, and he shows you the wounds in his hands and in his side, and he says, “Yes, I died for that too.” Your sins are forgiven.

Sometimes people come to church and say: Do we really have to confess our sins every Sunday, and have absolution, the forgiveness all the time? Wake up! Do you know what your saying? Don’t you know what wonderful gift you’re rejecting? This is Jesus’ pure love we are talking about: the forgiveness of every single one of our sins, purchased and won for us, paid and sealed by his death on the cross.

Now—is the woman saved by faith or by her love? The reading says: Jesus said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace”. She simply received this forgiveness from Jesus without having done a thing. Sometimes we might think that there is not a single drop of love in our hearts—and we think, what a hateful bitter person I am. Even if we have no love, Jesus have plenty for us. And he says, Your faith has saved you; go in peace. When you have no love, let me show you my love. You don’t deserve it, but I am merciful to you. I will love you, and now I will take you into the school of the Holy Spirit and teach you love.

And here’s the amazing thing: Jesus had already been teaching this woman about love. And she had so many burdens, so many sins, so many problems, and Jesus removes them all. And so he says: Her sins, which are many, are forgiven—for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little, loves little.

Jesus knows everything about us. And sometimes he lets us go off into a dark place for a while. He knows that we are sinners, and he allows us sometimes even to go our own way, and he allows us to fall into sin. He doesn’t cause the sin, but he knows who we are, and he wants to show us who we are, so that he can show us who he is and what he has done for us. And sometimes, we might look at the darkest part of our life, and think, “Why didn’t Jesus come and prevent me from doing that? Why didn’t he comes and put his angel on the road to drive me back and prevent me from doing that completely stupid thing that I did?” He let you fall, because he wanted to teach you love. He wanted to teach you just what a wonderful Saviour he is, just what a great price he paid for you, and to show you just how much he loves you, despite yourself.

And so, we read in our Gospel reading today: A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.

So far in our sermon today, I’ve mostly been talking about how Jesus loves us, and how he showed his love particularly to this woman, even though she was a great sinner. He forgives her. Now Jesus says: Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.

Love is not a feeling. A few years ago, I watched a few episodes of the Bachelor on TV. (Don’t tell anyone!) And the saddest thing about it was that the bachelor was choosing a woman based on what kind of feeling he had about her. Did he love the woman, or did he love the feeling of love? If he only loves the feeling of love, he doesn’t really love the woman at all—he only loves himself.

Sometimes, we think about someone we know too much about, and they have hurt us very deeply. And Jesus calls us to forgive them, to love them as he has loved us. And sometimes this hurts us—it’s almost too hard.

But we have to remember that we are saved by faith, not by love. Our love is always going to be imperfect, and it is always going to show us up. If we are Christians, we will always realise just how loveless we are. Sometimes we need to pray like this: Jesus, I think that such and such a person is disgusting, and I just can’t find any love in my heart for them. I’d even rather not pray for them at all, because they make me so angry, and they’ve hurt me so deeply. So Jesus, I leave them up to you, and you can love them instead. And when we have prayed like this, acknowledging our anger and our complete lack of love for them, what have we done? We have given them over to Jesus, for him to love, when we have no love. And this itself is an act of love, because we know that Jesus can everything, when we can do nothing.

Love comes from faith… it takes time, it takes training, it takes patience. And Jesus is patient with us, he will train us, he will teach us love, one step at a time. We would rather be polite and not rock the boat—but Jesus will teach us love.

In my ministry, I remember two occasions where I felt like I cut the atmosphere in the room with a knife. And both of these occasions were when I read the passage from our reading: By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another. If only we did! We see so many fights, disputes, power plays in the church, and we think: no wonder no-one knows that we are Jesus’ disciples.

But we need to trust Jesus in faith that he will work his love in us. We won’t see our love—we will only see our hatred, and our failures in love. But others will see the love… when we fail, it’s not time to look at our love, but it’s time to look at Christ’s, even when we are loveless. He has baptised you—he has washed you, a loveless person, with his love-filled word: I baptise you in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.

St Paul has a wonderful chapter about love in 1 Corinthians 13, where he says: Faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love. Faith is that wonderful thing that trusts in Jesus and his death for us. Hope is that wonderful thing that looks forward to being risen with him. But when all these things happen to us, when we have already died, when we have already entered into Jesus’ wonderful banquet room with all the company of heaven, we won’t need faith, because we will see Jesus face to face; we won’t need hope, because we will have what he hoped for. The only thing left will be love, and it will only be then when it is perfect.

Until then, we keep on listening to the love-filled words of Jesus, we keep reminding ourselves of our love-filled baptism, and we keep eating and drinking the love-filled Supper, and we trust our love-filled Lord to work the fruit of love in our loveless hearts, even when we can’t see it ourselves. St John says: We love, not because we are already experts in love and know everything about it, but we love because he first loved us.

What a wonderful Saviour we have! Amen.



Dear Jesus, fill us with your Holy Spirit that we may love another as you have loved us. We pray that you would work in us the wonderful desire to want to love, and we pray that you would also bring this desire to perfection, so that by this all people will know that we are your personal disciples. Help us, dear Jesus, and work your love, the first fruit of the Holy Spirit, in us. Amen.

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